Thursday 29 October 2009

The Lion, The Hedgehog and The Case of Missing Self Confidence

Self confidence at times can be a fragile quality. Many other people can destroy our self confidence particularly if our actions are driven by the desire to please them at the expense of what we believe to be true.

Here is the tale of the lion and the hedgehogs.

Once upon a time there was a lion living in the jungle with all his lion friends. One day he grew adventurous and decided to go and see the wider world. He stumbled on the home of the hedgehogs. This was a nice place; a place he liked very much. He asked the head hedgehog if he could stay with them.

“Sorry, you can’t stay here you are too different. Cut off your tail and become like us” said head hedgehog.

With some deep reservations the lion took the advice and cut off his tail. On his return to head hedgehog he was told

“No, still too different. Shave off your hair and come back to me.”

Although he thought this rather drastic, he was eager to please so he shaved off his hair.

“Your claws are too long” retorted the head hedgehog. “You’ll have too chop them off”.

Desperate to gain the acceptance of the hedgehogs he clipped his claws back to nothing and returned to the head hedgehog once more.

“No still not right. Look no matter what you change about yourself, you are still different. It must be your personality. It’s in your nature to be a lion. You will never be a hedgehog so please go away and leave us alone”.

The lion set off to find his old lion friends in the jungle. But once there he found more rejection.

“You’ve lost your identity” cried out one of the others. “You’re no longer a lion”.

No longer a lion and didn’t get to make it to hedgehog status either, whom or what had he become?

The lion had sold his identity in exchange for acceptance by the hedgehogs. He had sold his true self for the approval of others. People can be like this lion too. Perhaps we change the way we dress or do things that other people want despite this going against our better judgement, purely to gain acceptance. This results in either acceptance but no self confidence or rejection and a loss of identity.

Sometimes it’s hard to appreciate but other people do respect others with differing opinions, ideas and interests. By discarding our identity for the acceptance of others we lose our true selves. Yes we can change ourselves for the better but we should do it for ourselves and not for other people.

Although I believe that believing in God is becoming fashionable again it was not that long ago that having a faith deemed us as not conforming. It was not “cool” to declare our belief in God. Yet having our faith, no matter how we choose to follow that faith, forms part of our personality. We must never deny God just to appear to be “cool” in the eyes of others.

Unto thine own self be true.

How fantastic is that?

Terry Norrington

Tuesday 27 October 2009

The Wonderful World of Faith and Creativity

What is the meaning of faith?

Very often we can be bogged down with a problem and really struggle to find a solution. The creative juices fail to flow and we become totally frustrated at our total lack of creativity.

So do we resign ourselves to the fact that we are obviously not the creative sort?

Or can we train ourselves to think with creative spirit?

Firstly let’s define creativity. Creativity is the ability to solve problems with new methods to accomplish daily tasks. This can also lead to new insights and visions to help achieve goals and obtain success.

So is creativity inherited?

If we look at children at play we can see tremendous examples of creativity. They can take every day objects and create totally new games to play. The playground is full of wild imagination and creativity.

So where did we loose it all?

Routine

As we have seen, children have an inexhaustible ability for creativity. But as we get older life becomes full of instruction. Restrictions are placed upon us and we lose a lot of the ability to think for ourselves. Creativity flies out of the window. Systems and repetitiveness stifle creativity. Strict time tables, daily routines, working in closed areas and desk jobs all hamper our imaginations.

Free time

It is virtually impossible to avoid all routine but what we do need is to develop some free time. Put aside one day per week where nothing is planned. Just let the day unfold and “go with the flow”. Spend time going to places like the seaside or strolling through the woods; places of natural interest with open spaces. At work create a few minutes of free time. There are some people who spend their free time alone and then spend that time thinking of work. They even take that work to bed and dwell on work issues as they fall asleep. These people need to develop free time un-associated with work for the sake of creativity and also for the sake of their sanity.

Left brain – Right brain

Our brains are divided into two hemispheres- the left brain and the right brain. The left side deals with our logical and reasoning thought patterns. Our right side of the brain handles intuition and creativity. Much of our work life today asks us to use logic and reasoning and therefore our right side of the brain becomes somewhat redundant. Ideally we need to exercise both sides of the brain to get the most of our cerebral abilities.

How’s best to develop creative thinking?

1. Understand that there is no exact solution to a problem, but there will always be more than one solution to that problem.
2. Don’t give in to false beliefs. If we believe there is no solution to our problem then there won’t be. Have faith.
3. Never restrict or dismiss thoughts. Two silly thoughts may well lead to a third good thought.
4. Break away from routine when thinking of solutions. This allows for a better flow of creative thoughts.
5. Brainstorm. Ask others. Again two ideas that may seem ridiculous may lead to a third, sensible idea.
6. Take time occasionally to do something not done before.
7. Put aside some time as free time.
8. Spend time with creative people. Creativity is infectious and we may be pleasantly surprised as to how creative we really are when we compare ourselves to these people.

We needn’t be restricted to a path of logical thinking. We all have that wonderful ability to be creative. Breaking away from routine and giving ourselves time to think will stimulate creative thinking and then we will find that no problem will ever be without a solution.

How fantastic is that?

Terry Norrington

www.whatisthemeaningoffaith.com

www.cryinthedark.org

Monday 26 October 2009

Knock Knock

What is the meaning of faith?

How can we measure true faith?

How can we tell when our faith in god is truly justified?

When the chips are down and we our facing real adversity and our situation seems completely hopeless do we turn to god?

There will be many times in our lives when doors keep shutting in front of us. The dreaded “no” keeps being thrown in our face when we go knocking on those doors. Somehow we still believe in our ideas but it seems impossible to get anybody else to be interested. This is the moment that the really strong will switch into overdrive. The tough keep going.

There are so many examples in history of successful people who have found the going sticky at times. Just about every single successful person did not start out being successful. They had to endure hardship and persevered in the project that they believed in. They kept knocking on doors because they never knew whether that next door might be the one that led to the road of success. They continued with hope and faith. Thomas Edison tried nearly one thousand different patents before he finally created the model light bulb that worked. Each one that did not work wasn’t considered a failure but more of a learning curve. He learned that that one wasn’t the correct way and he was one step closer to finding the right way.

A tremendously positive example of focussing on the solution, not the problem.

So how can one stay strong during extreme times of adversity?

One way is to have faith in God. By turning to God and asking him for guidance he will listen to our prayers and provide us with answers. And sometimes the answer lies in a completely different format to what we expected. There can be no greater example of this than that of “The Virgin Birth”.

Mary and Joseph arrived in Bethlehem with Mary just about ready to give birth. Mary knew that she was giving birth to God’s child but did he have to make life so difficult? Did that census have to come right now?

They knocked on door after door only to be told that there was no room at the inn. But they had faith in God. So they kept trying and eventually they were given shelter in a stable. Jesus was born in that stable.

Now the obvious answer to their dilemma would have been for God to have found a spare room in one of the inns. A room with a comfortable bed. But it was extremely fortuitous that they ended up in that stable. Firstly, the inn keepers would have been obliged to have provided them with a room each as men and women weren’t allowed to share rooms in those days. Joseph, being Mary’s only travelling companion would have missed out at being present at the birth. Secondly all those visitors they had wouldn’t have been able to find them and they wouldn’t have gone home loaded up with Gold, Frankincense and Myrrh.

Mary and Joseph’s faith in God eventually provided them with a solution to their problem, even though it was in the most unexpected of ways.

Likewise for all of us, in the mitts of adversity we can turn in faith and hope to God to gain our strength. Strength to see us through to the bitter end. But don’t be surprised if his ideas are somewhat different to our own.

How fantastic is that?

Terry Norrington

www.whatisthemeaningoffaith.com

www.cryinthedark.org

Sunday 25 October 2009

How to be Unsuccessful

What is the meaning of faith?

What do we want to be successful for?

Waking up in the morning feeling great, feeling in control, feeling victorious.

Who wants that?

It gives you energy, then that means you have to get involved with things to burn that energy off. It would mean we’d have to be constructive and make positive contributions to the world, have things in life we really want.

Is that really how we want our lives to be?

Do we rally want loads of friends, a happy family with laughing children around our feet?

Isn’t it better to have false beliefs?

At least with false beliefs we can limit our potential, limit our abilities. If we really can’t have happiness and success we can wallow in our misery, not have to live up to expectations, watching everybody else have what they want knowing we couldn’t possibly have that.

External influences. This is a great one. We can blame other things, other people for us not making our lives better. Yes, then that takes the pressure off and we can then live with our consciences because it wasn’t our fault. It wasn’t our fault the exam board set the exams so hard that we failed. Yeh, forget the fact we couldn’t be bothered to revise.

No perseverance.

How does the saying go?

“If at first you don’t succeed, give up”. Sounds like a good motto to live our lives by to me.

Why should we be bothered to exhaust all avenues to live our dream?

That sounds to much like hard work to me. If we fall over and hurt ourselves that’s a good enough reason to give up, isn’t it?

Be flexible?

Why?

If something doesn’t work, surely there isn’t another method to get the same result. That means being adaptable, having to think a little deeper, study a bit harder to find away around obstacles. We might have to start talking to people to see if they have solutions, and find out what they might think. We know what they will think. They will think we are stupid.

It isn’t worth it is it?

Then there’s the bit about planning, setting goals. Look, if we don’t plan to get ahead, well, somebody else will. If we don’t plan to get that highly paid job, somebody else will. If we don’t plan to get that fantastic house, somebody else will. We don’t want to set goals. That might put pressure on us to achieve them.

No it’s much better not to plan, isn’t it?

Self-confidence. Wow now, surely we’re better off being the shy one. All said and done, we’re protected if we live up to our belief that we cannot do it. Our feelings are protected. Let’s face it, if we start taking risks we’re only going to fail.

And then what will people think?

No, it’s much more comfortable to have no self-confidence. If we want self-confidence we need to practice all that self-confidence stuff, and we might feel inclined to get off our backsides and get on with things.

Besides we’re frightened. We’re frightened of stepping into the dark. We don’t know every step to take even if God is there to show us the way.

And what if we do become successful?

How do we handle success?

We’re only used to failure aren’t we chaps? ….. Chaps……Hello…..Where are you?

How fantastic is that?

Terry Norrington

http://www.whatisthemeaningoffaith.com

http://www.cryinthedark.org

Saturday 24 October 2009

Aborigines Part 2

What is the meaning of faith?

Throughout the world, spread across the continents, there are many so called “primitive” tribes. These tribes live off the land, hunt for their food and generally live day to day. Yet they have tremendous faith; faith that their creator will look after them and provide.

These tribes view the world far differently than the chaotic, competitive existence of the developed world. In the capitalist society the dollar, pound or euro is king. The idea of success is about how much money one can acquire, whether we have more material possessions than the person next door. Our brains function on logic, formulas and ideas that can be proved.

Tribes like the Aborigines exist by being more in tune with the environment and don’t depend on things tangible. They observe and learn from what nature teaches them. They endeavour to improve their situation by constantly increasing their knowledge and then passing that information on to the next generation in their tribe. Initiation ceremonies are a passage that everybody goes through but this is about learning the Laws of Living and the skills that go with it.

The tribe will have at their head Wirinuns which are wise men, shamans, medicine men and magicians. They will guide the tribe, help them over come hardship and teach the skills that help the drive to achieve and improve. Rock paintings and more recently bark paintings are some of the ways in which Aborigines record their lessons and great events so that they can be passed down the generations without losing clarity through interpretation.

There is much mystery surrounding the magical powers of The Aboriginal Culture.
Extra sensory perception, faith healing and the remarkable ability to conduct surgery by inserting their hands into a sick person’s body without leaving a trace or scar are all part of the fascinating world of the Aborigine. Although there have been many attempts to discredit these amazing skills, to my knowledge none have been proved or disproved as yet.

The Aborigines have a phenomenal belief in the spirits. Every spirit has their own vibrational thought frequency. Remember, Aborigines believe that everything comes from a thought yet not everything is physical. So by tuning into the frequency of the spirit they can communicate with that spirit. In practicing Totemism they also believe that everything has a frequency including animals and physical objects. They will spend part of their lives searching for the Totem that has the closest vibrational thought frequency to their own and once found brings about some peace and harmony to their lives.

Although any Aborigine can communicate with the spirits if they develop the skills, it is generally the Wirinuns that contact them and the very skilled will be able to do this at will. Much of their communication will be with ancestral spirits who can provide answers gained from their greater experiences. In order to reach into the realms of the spirit world they will alter their moods to align their frequencies with that of the spirits. Even then thoughts aren’t easily transmitted to the spirits. Thoughts will be much clearer if accompanied by emotion.

A Wirinun may well be able to convey emotion by himself but rituals, dances and chanting enhance the emotional state and the transference of thought becomes much easier.

Compare this then to our prayers. When we speak to God our words can very easily be lost if we aren’t focussed on what we have to say. If our moods distract us we don’t concentrate on the words. Creating emotion helps God understand our prayers better. In the high churches of the Anglican community a lot of the prayers are sung. Other denominations and faiths will chant to get their message through. Is it any wonder then the increased popularity of gospel worship. The entertainingly enthusiastic approach to prayer and worship enlivens the congregation promoting a tremendous sense of wellbeing. Emotion plays a big part in this style of prayer.

How fantastic is that?

Terry Norrington

www.whatisthemeaningoffaith.com

www.cryinthedark.com

Friday 23 October 2009

World Peace

What is the meaning of faith?

One of the comments that frustrate me, and I heard it said just the other day, is that religion is the cause of so many wars and problems in the world.

Whilst on the surface this may appear true, it is my argument that it is not religions that are the cause of these problems but people. Wars and terrorist attacks are created by people in the name of religion. These are people with fundamentalist views, intolerant to how anybody else thinks, unmoved but what others believe in.

Any study into the main religions of the world will reveal the peaceful qualities of these religions. Correct following of the words of God, whether it be through the bible, the Qur’an or any other gospel should provide us with the laws to follow harmonious existences with each other. Religions actively promote peace and anybody who commits atrocities in the name of religion in my view has totally missed the point.

It maybe that some people are intent on causing trouble and latch onto religion to justify their actions. This is not the fault of religion or faith; more the result of disturbed minds.

Whilst I consider myself a Christian and feel very comfortable practicing my faith through an Anglican church, I have come to appreciate the fact that everybody has the right to worship the lord in which ever manner they feel most at ease with. Whichever way we practice our faith, there is one undisputable fact; we all recognise that there is a creator. Whatever name we give him, whatever images we have in our heads as to how he may appear, we all have that one common link; a belief and faith in our creator.

This should be the link between us all, the bond that draws us all together. A healthy respect towards each other, a tolerance of faith, race and culture should and can result in world peace if everybody can be of the same mind.

There are other issues with immigration that make it difficult to accept mass migration into different countries. Over population and financial burdens render it difficult to accommodate everybody into any one area. Also, unfortunately, history shows that different ethnic groups cannot live in harmony with their neighbour.

But why not?

Why can’t different tribes, races and religions co-exist next door to each other?

Why does there have to be “no-go” areas?

With tolerance it should be more than possible to love thy neighbour whatever their colour of skin, no matter the way they decide to follow their faith. It’s not rocket science, it just takes the will of the people to live peaceful lives.

How fantastic is that?

Terry Norrington

http://www.whatisthemeaningoffaith.com

Tuesday 20 October 2009

Aborigines Part 1

What is the meaning of faith?

When anybody talks about faith the obvious assumption is that the conversation will be religious. Indeed the great religions of the world base faith at the heart of their teachings and understandings but even the smaller religions, cults and cultures all still have their faiths. Even atheists will have faith in something even if that faith is in themselves and their abilities to accomplish a goal.

Tribes’ people of the world have their individual cultures with their own type of religion revolving around beliefs and faith. Typical is the Aborigines of Australia which is arguably the oldest continual culture on this planet. As Australia urbanises around the coastal areas, Aborigines are constantly drawn to or consumed by the Western way of life and much of their sacred lands have been taken over. Consequently the Native Aborigines are dwindling in numbers.

In the 1970’s when carbon dating was the best way of dating historical artefacts, history could only have a date set upon it to 40,000 years ago. Carbon dating could only take us back that far and Aboriginal Culture was proved to have existed then. Today it is thought that Aborigines were in existence 60,000 years ago and possibly 100,000 years ago.

With such a long history it is safe to assume that they have learned something during that time. Although collectively the Aborigines share similar beliefs, the culture is still very much tribal and thus there are variances in beliefs and customs between the differing tribes. Ceremonies, rituals and customs are shrouded in secrecy so their meanings will not be totally understood by the next tribe. However there are some common stories, beliefs and faith shared by all.

The Creation Period

Many religions are characterised by having a god or gods who in their wisdom created the universe. Baiame is the Great Spirit. It was he who dreamed of creating the world and along with the other spirits Nungeena (Mother Nature), Punjel (the Architect of the Universe) and Yhi (Sun Goddess) they set about making this dream come true.

Punjel, being the Architect of the Universe, took multi-million portions from the Supreme Intelligence of Baiame and created Yowies (souls). These Yowies were given three strong drives; the need for nutrition to sustain a physical body, the desire for reproduction and a will to achieve. These Yowies were then collectively swirled around in an anti-clockwise direction and thrust towards Tya (earth) which created the gravitational force of earth.

Because of their desire to achieve, the Yowies started to mould Tya and eventually a solid mass was formed. The Spirits decided that the Yowies needed memory so they gave them a spirit body called the Dowie; a memory bank to retain all previous experiences and the Mullowill; a sheath like protection to guard the Yowies from psychic and emotional influences and also to protect the Dowie.

The next stage of the creation period was to introduce plant life so Nungeema was called upon to create her magic. The Yowies creative abilities were somewhat lacking, plant life was merely in the form of mosses, so Yhi was asked to warm up Tya. The sun created steam caps and the ice encapsulating Tya began to melt.

Their next problem was that the plant life was now drowning in the flood of water so Uluru, The Intelligent Snake from within the higher spirits of the universe was summonsed. He burrowed holes into the solid mass creating the seas, lakes and rivers with the spoils creating mountains. His work created an imbalance and Tya began to wobble as it span through space.

In digging the holes, Uluru had thrown masses of soil into the air and as Yhi didn’t want this contamination ruining her work of sunlight, she took this soil to create Bahloo (the moon).

Plant life was now starting to overgrow due to the three main drives. More action was needed so the spirits decided to introduce animal life. Advanced Yowies were selected because of their memory banks, their desire to achieve and creative abilities. These Yowies became animals. Jelly fish were the first of the animal kingdom and as the rains came and ponds overflowed many of these jelly fish were left stranded upon the rocks once the flood waters subsided. The Strongest and most creative Yowies survived and evolved to create different species.

The next part of the jigsaw was to create an advanced intelligence; the human being. Baiame descended to Tya with three hundred men and woman to introduce them to all the previous experiences and intelligence of mineral, plant and animal life. These men and woman became the first tribe and Baiame taught them the Laws of Living and the Laws of the Universe with the magic, art and healing contained within them. Elders and wise men and women were chosen to ensure that these lessons were interpreted correctly and handed down through the generations.

This is just a brief summary of the Creation Period as understood by the Aborigines. Yet through the haze of the myth there are some remarkable resemblances with how modern day science depicts the creation of the universe.
The order and time span are notably similar, indeed the aboriginal version of creation with regards to time is much nearer to modern day thinking than the bible, if the idea that the world was created in seven days is to be taken literally.
And these ideas came many thousands of years before modern science.

At the beginning Baiame had a dream and with the aid of the other spirits his thoughts and dreams became a reality. Today we have ideas and theories such as the Law of Attraction which helps us understand that everything created in this world started with a thought in somebody’s head. If we believe in our thoughts hard enough, desire it great enough, these thoughts will manifest themselves into reality soon enough. Have faith.

How fantastic is that?

Much of this information came from the following sources: Understanding Aboriginal Culture by Cyril Havecker which can be obtained at http://www.amazon.co.uk/Understanding-aboriginal-culture-Cyril-Havecker/, http://www.aboriginalculture.com.au/religion.shtml and http://www.indigenousaustralia.info/culture.html.

Terry Norrington

http://www.whatisthemeaningoffaith.com

Tuesday 6 October 2009

The Battle is Not Ours

What is the meaning of Faith?

So many times in life things get on top of us. Things don't seem to go right and other people demand so much that we wonder how we can cope with it all. We brood over our problems and dispair at the magnitude of everything. At this point our faith in God can very much be tested.

Amongst all our problems we can easily forget to turn to God. The hussle and bussle of everyday life creates no time to sit and allow God to give us answers.

Yet amazingly, if we can just switch off for a few minutes, think about God and re-affirm our faith and belief in him, suddenly a peace of mind washes over us. This allows us to see the problems from another perspective and helps us to prioritise the things that are really important.

If we turn to God and ask for the help that accomplishes good works, we get answers. To do good works is not our battle but that of God. We are merely the tools for which God's work can be completed. God will take on the burdens and relieve us of the pressure if we allow him to.

Heb. 11 : 1 Faith means that we have the full confidence in the things that we hope for, it means being certain of things we cannot see.

Joshua 1 Verses 2 and 5. Arise, go over this Jordan...I will not leave you or forsake you.

2 Chronicles 20 : 15 Do not be afraid nor dismayedbecause of this great multitude, for the battle is not yours, but God's.

How fantastic is that?

Terry Norrington

http://www.whatisthemeaningoffaith.com/